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Pamela A.
Bauckman (Newman)

March 24, 1962 – September 25, 2018

Pamela Bauckman
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Obituary for Pamela A. Bauckman (Newman)


Pamela A. (Newman) Bauckman passed away Tuesday, September 25, 2018 after a courageous battle against cancer; she was only 56 years old. Pam was born on March 24, 1962. She attended Northborough public schools, graduating in 1980 from St. Peter Marion High School in Worcester, as a member of the National Honor Society.
After graduation Pam worked in the insurance industry for over 20 years. She enjoyed perfecting her cooking skills, visiting Hampton and Cape Cod, teaching CCD and found enjoyment in watching classic TV shows and movies. She had a wonderfully sarcastic personality and could be considered lovingly stubborn by those who were lucky enough to know her. She was kind hearted and compassionate to a fault.
Pam is survived by her two sons, Kyle W. Bauckman and his wife Katie of E. Orange, NJ, and Adam M. Bauckman of Worcester; her parents, Harold and Lenora (Nicholson) Newman of Northborough; a sister, Lynda Davis and her husband Andy of Yelm, WA; her two grandchildren, Alexander and Charlotte Bauckman, both of whom she loved and adored, and her nieces and nephews. She also leaves her soulmate and companion of over 25 years, Richard J. Smalley of Worcester; a lifelong friend, Jane Barsamian of Worcester, and her extended Smalley family. She was preceded in death by her brother Christopher. She made many acquaintances and friends over the 15 years at Fortune Transport, Co. in Worcester as she worked side-by-side with Rich.
Calling hours for Pam will be Sunday, September 30th, from 3-5pm at Hays Funeral Home, 56 Main Street, Northborough. Her funeral Mass will be held Monday, October 1st, at 10 am, from St. Rose of Lima Parish, 244 W. Main Street, Northborough. Burial will follow in Howard Street Cemetery. Please wear Pamela’s favorite color, purple, as a way to commemorate Pamela’s kind spirit and love for others.
Pam’s family respectfully ask that in lieu of flowers that contributions be made to Rocky Ridge Refuge, P.O. Box 105, Midway, Ar. 72651 [ ]. To leave a condolence for her family, visit Pamela’s Book of Memories at

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First Visitation

When Sunday September 30, 2018 3:00pm - 5:00pm
Hays Funeral Home
56 Main Street
Northborough, MA 01532
Additional Information Please consider wearing Pamela's favorite color, purple.

Funeral Mass Information

Monday October 1, 2018 10:00am
Father James Houston
St. Rose of Lima Parish
244 W. Main St.
Northborough, MA 01532

Interment Information

Howard Street Cemetery
Howard Street
Northborough, Massachusetts 01532
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