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Arlene M.
Kastler
June 12, 1931 – October 17, 2021
SUDBURY
NORTHBOROUGH
Arlene M. (Short) Kastler, 90, died Sunday, October 17, 2021 while in the presence of family at
Beaumont in Northborough. She leaves three daughters; Wendie McClain and her husband
David, of Denver, CO, Pamela Caswell and her husband Fred, of Freeport, ME and Kim Kastler
and her husband John Liller, of Grafton, MA; 8 grandchildren: Emily, Jenna, K.C., Brad and his
wife Michelle, Andy and his wife Kayla, Kristy, Anna and her husband Colin, and Colin and his
fiancee Natasha; and 4 great-grandchildren: Mack, Micah, Elizabeth and Bella. Arlene was
predeceased by her husband of 47 years, John William Kastler, in 2000, and her brother
Raymond J. Short, Jr.
Arlene was born June 12, 1931 in Newark, NJ, a daughter of Raymond and Mignon (Koch)
Short, and graduated from East Orange High School in 1949. While in high school, she
summered in Ocean Grove, NJ where she met her husband at the age of 16. Arlene then
attended Purdue University and was the president of her sorority, Sigma Kappa, graduating in
1953 with degree in Home Economics. She married John Kastler in 1953 and they settled in
Sudbury, MA where Arlene taught Home Ec at Curtis Middle School for 20 years. She
particularly enjoyed introducing boys to the art of cooking and sewing.
In 1994, Arlene and John moved to Edgartown after having summered on the Vineyard since
1970. While there, she was active in the Edgartown Yacht Club and the Chappaquiddick Beach
Club. Arlene was an accomplished water color painter and especially enjoyed spending her time
with family.
Burial, on Martha's Vineyard, will be at the family's convenience. In lieu of flowers, donations to
honor Arlene's memory may be made to Salmon Hospice, 37 Birch St., Milford, MA 01757
Hays Funeral Home, 56 Main Street, Northborough was honored to assist the Kastler family with arrangements. To leave a condolence, or to share a memory, please visit www.HaysFuneralHome.com.
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